SERVICE ORIENTED SELLING: Attitude Shaping and Shifting: Appreciation Lists

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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Attitude Shaping and Shifting: Appreciation Lists

What are your favorite things? Who are the people, places, experiences, and things you appreciate? There is no better way to reshape your perspective on life than to regularly sit down and list the things you value. Sometimes I do this on 3x5 cards at odd moments in a restaurant. Sometimes I use a 8 1/2 x 11 writing pad on the air plane. The discipline of committing these things to paper seems to have more impact on my attitude and outlook than just going over them in my mind. Maybe even put them in a media like our You Tube friend did.

There is a tendency in human nature to look for what’s missing. This is valuable also and that’s where our goals come from. But an excessive focus on what’s missing is a sure recipe for unhappiness. After a time of great loss it’s natural to obsess on what’s missing for a season. Don’t worry about that too much unless you get stuck there for a prolonged period. In those cases, counseling may be helpful to get you moving through the grief process.

Here is a partial list I wrote on a recent plane trip:

My Faith
Susy, my wife
My mom and dad
My 102 year old grandmother
My extended family of aunts, uncles, cousins, step children, and in-laws
My church family and pastor
My friendships all over the United States
USA… Is this a great country or what?
The company that employed me for 15 years
My boss for the last 8 years
Sammy, my Labrador Retriever
Starbucks…. Especially the Green Tea Frappacino and the ambiance
Our house
My library of books
Zip lining in Kauai
Barnes and Noble…. Borders… any bookstore…. New or used
USA Today
Maui Jim Sunglasses
Guacamole with Pico de Gallo
My morning coffee with flaxseed and flavored creamer
Fuggazi (Local Restaurant) especially the Tostada Pizza
California Pizza Kitchen …. Everything
Chipotle …. The burrito bowl
Hang gliding off Look Out Mountain
Pilot G2 Mini Pens
Moleskine for jotting down ideas
3x5 Cards
Movies with popcorn, candy, and soda
Black graphic tees
Zippered Hoodies
Roller Coasters
Flip Flops
Levi 504’s
Google
Blogger and writing
Nike Free Styles
Costco
Target
Almonds and Cranberries all mixed up
Nascar ride at 165 mph
Room and Board Home Furnishings
Business Animals… my stuffed animal collection of business mascots
Crème de mint Altoid Breath Fresheners
Dentyne Ice Chewing Gum
Blackberry
Indoor skydiving
Hampton Inns
Apple Store
Apple and Peanut Butter
Walking mainstreet… especially with Susy
Classic Rock
Lifestyle Fitness Center
PF Chang Lettuce Wraps
Barbeque
My Ipod

From a Servant Selling perspective you might also list your customers and clients. Consider making a list now of the people you have sold products or services to. You might also send them a note of appreciation letting them know how much you value them and their business.

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Servant Sales Maxims

Why else get out of bed in the morning?
Organizations exist to serve. Period.
~Tom Peters

A business is simply an idea to make other peoples lives better.

~Sir Richard Branson, Billionaire

My staff’s job is to adjust to circumstances with technical precision and artful grace so that every patron has a wonderful experience.

~Danny Meyer

My secret was focusing on the needs of other people. I constantly asked the question "How can I add something of value to other people's lives?" Through this thought process I became a leader... I went from living hand-to-mouth to more than a million dollar net worth in less than one year.

~Tony Robbins

We're running a company to serve more people.

~Mark Zuckerberg

Never forget that absolutely everything you do is for your customers. Make every decision - even decisions about whether to expand the business, raise money, or promote someone - according to what's best for your customers. If you're ever unsure what to prioritize, just ask your customers the open-ended question, "How can I best help you now?" Then focus on satisfying those requests."

~Derek Sivers

Our competitive advantage is that when we make a promise we keep it.

~Warren Buffett

Help people do what they already want to do.

~B.J. Fogg

We see our customers as invited guests to a party, and we are the hosts. It's our job every day to make every important aspect of the customer experience a little bit better.

~Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon

There is a clear goal and it isn't to make money. The goal is to desperately try to make the best products we can. We are not naive - if you trust it, people like it, They like it, they buy it and we make money. This is a consequence.

~Jony Ive, Senior Vice-President of Design at Apple

Get closer than ever to your customers. So close that you tell them what they need well before they realize it themselves.

~Steve Jobs, founder of Apple

For us, our most important stakeholder is not our stockholders, it is our customers. We're in business to serve the needs and desires of our core customer base.

~John Mackey

The purpose of a business is to create a customer who creates a customer.

~Shiv Singh

Make your product easier to buy than your competition, or you will find your customers buying from them, not you.

~Mark Cuban, Shark Tank Shark

There are no traffic jams along the extra mile.

~Roger Staubach, Quarterback, Realtor

A business devoted to service will only have one worry about profits. They will be embarrassingly large.

~Henry Ford

When life is about caring for the orchard, rather than picking the apples, you get more apples to eat.

~Nicholas Lore

The well-served customer...is an appreciating asset. Every small act on her or his behalf ups the odds of repeat business, add-on business, and price-less word-of-mouth referral.

~Tom Peters

Extend to each person, no matter how trivial the contact, all the care and kindness and understanding and love that you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same.

~Og Mandino

Don't be reluctant to give of yourself generously. It's the mark of caring and compassion and personal greatness.

~Brian Tracy, Author of The Psychology of Selling

There is no difference between selling and customer service; they are the same thing.

~Kip Tindell, Co-Owner, The Container Store

Focus on the promise, not the prize.
~Leslie Mayer, Wharton School of Business

I kept on improving as a salesperson because I kept on learning better ways to service the customer.
~Patrick McCarthy, Nordstrom's All-Time Top Salesperson

Stop worrying about the money and concentrate on serving the customer, the money will follow.
~Patrick Kennedy, Nordstrom's Sales Manager

I realized early on that I didn't need to worry about whether they did business with me or not. I needed to help them make a good decision. If, at the end of the conversation, they didn't need to buy a home or, later in my life, get into real estate, or later, buy one of our franchises, then I didn't want them to do it. I never needed to worry about me. I just needed to worry about them.
~Gary Keller of Keller-Williams, the fourth-largest and fastest growing real estate firm in North America

You don't fall in love with online marketing. It's only a distribution channel. You fall in love with the clients, the people you can reach and the benefit, the impact, the enhancement, the contribution you can make in their life. One of the biggest philosophical breakthroughs we have established in the business arena which I think is directly applicable here is teaching people how to adopt the attitude of what I'll call a "super-servant". The more you realize the concept of being a "super-servant", the more you will take full control of your life. It's not dependency, it's liberation.

~Jay Abraham, Business Consultant

I define selling as a process of identifying and fulfilling people's wants or needs, and creating value for them. It's a mutual win-win activity, where both sides benefit from the transaction.
~Ron Willingham, Integrity Selling

Stop getting and start giving!When you are in the “how I can GET a client” mode, you are focused on you – and that doesn’t make you very attractive. Shift your thinking to “how I can GIVE clients more VALUE” and you’ll become an irresistible client magnet!

~Adam Urbanski, Marketing Consultant

Forget about the sales you hope to make and concentrate on the service you want to render… I tell our salespeople that if they would start out each morning with the thought, “I want to help as many people as possible today“, instead of “I want to make as many sales as possible today“, they would find a more easy and open approach to their buyers and they would make more sales. The person who goes out to help people to a happier and easier way of life is exercising the highest type of salesmanship.
~Harry Bullis, Former Chairman of the Board, General Mills

"When you’re needy it’s difficult to truly care about your customers.”
~unknown wise person

“My challenge was to be patient. There’s no percentage in trying to push the river or speed up the harvest. The farmer who’s so eager to help crops grow that he slips out at night and tugs on the shoots inevitably ends up going hungry.”
~Phil Jackson, Basketball Coach

“What the losers don’t realize is that big money-makers aren’t lucky, and they don’t wait for breaks, and they know how to take care of a new client. To emulate the super-salesperson, you must give your new customer a lot of thought. You must make darned sure that he’s glad that he met you and that he continues feeling that way. You must see to it that he never forgets your name and that you won’t forget his. You must make sure that your new client becomes a customer who will buy from you again and again and again, and will recommend you to his friends and associates. There’s only one way to make all this happen: You must do what I do. Do it with service!
~Joe Gandolfo

“I just discovered many years ago that Major Transformational Experiences don’t pay the rent. What pays the rent is small things done consistently in strategic places. Small things done consistently in strategic places create major impact.”
~David Allen, Efficiency Coach

“A good sales presentation should be like a woman’s skirt… long enough to cover everything but short enough to keep the interest.”
~Unknown Wise Person

“Selling is helping people discover the value for something they haven’t discovered the value of.”
~Jerry Gilles

“When you drink water, remember the well.”
~Zen Saying

“I am convinced by my own experience, and by that of others, that if there is any secret of success it lies in the ability to get another person’s point of view and see things from his angle as well as from your own.”
~Henry Ford, Founder of Ford Motor Company

“Everyone has the power for greatness, not for fame but greatness, because greatness is determined by service.”
~Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

"There is no such thing as hard sell and soft sell. There is only “smart sell” and “stupid sell.”
~Charles H. Browser, Ad Executive

"Use visual sales aids, they are 15 times more powerful than words. The average attention span of the average prospect is 3 sentences."
~Brian Tracy, Sales Tracy

“If you are trying to persuade people to do something, or buy something, it seems to me you should use their language, the language in which they think.”
~David Olgilvy, Advertising Giant

"Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full - pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back."
~Jesus Christ, From Luke 6:38, New Living Translation

"You can get everything in life you want, if you help enough other people get what they want."
~Zig Ziglar, Sales Trainer

"You heighten your own life when you help others heighten theirs."~Les Brown

I slept and dreamt that life was joy,
I awoke and saw that life was service,
I acted and behold, service was joy.
~Rabindranath Tagore

If you just learn a single trick, Scout, you'll get along a lot better with all kinds of folks. You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view... Until you climb inside his skin and walk around in it.

~Harper Lee, From To Kill a Mockingbird

In an age of universal deceipt, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.

~George Orwell

There is a whole lot of growing up between "it fell" and "I broke it".

~Anonymous, World Renown Philosopher

Whoever desires to become great among you shall be your servant.

~Jesus Christ, From Mark 10:43

To often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.

~Leo Buscaglia

Every single person on the planet is rewarded for one thing and one thing only, and that is for serving other people. The more you serve others, the higher your reward.

~Larry Winget

"It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others succeed."

~Napoleon Hill

"No one has ever become poor by giving."

~Anne Frank

"You are responsible...for the customer understanding/utilizing the product! If the customer has problems in usage...blame yourself!"

~Tom Peters

SSAT (Servant Selling Achievement Test

1. List 7 ways you serve your customers and exceed their expectations.

2. List 3 things you regularly do for each associate that you work with to make them feel special.

3. How do you personalize your marketing? How often do you send a hand written note with your signature in real ink?

4. How well do you listen? Do you give customers what they want or what you think they want?

5. List 3 recent mistakes you personally made in handling a customer. How did you fix it? Was the customer satisfied? How do you know?

6. How do you treat team members who make mistakes? Give a recent example.

7. What sort of tools do you have in place to get customer feed back? What do you do with the information when you get it?

8. List 3 "New" things you've personally introduced... products, services, ways of thinking about things. How have they benefited your customer? Do you have an ongoing mindset of introducing new things that serve your customers?

9. Do you belong to any groups, formal or informal, where you exchange ideas on sales and service?

10. From your previous answers, list 3 new ideas you've come up with to improve your Servant Selling and exceeding customer expectations.

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Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Attitude Shaping and Shifting: Appreciation Lists

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